It hurts...

It hurts to let go.
Sometimes it seems the harder you try to hold on to something or someone the more it wants to get away.
You feel like some kind of criminal for having felt, for having wanted.
For having wanted to be wanted.
It confuses you, because you think that your feelings were wrong and it makes you feel so small because it's so hard to keep it inside when you let it out and it doesn't come back.
You're left so alone that you can't explain.
Damn, there's nothing like that, is there? I've been there and you have too.
You're nodding your head.

                                       
                                     Henry Rollins

At some point in their lives...

Everyone, at some point in their lives, wakes up in the middle of the night with the feeling that they are all alone in the world,
and that nobody loves them now and that nobody will ever love them, and that they will never have a decent night's sleep again
and will spend their lives wandering blearily around a loveless landscape, hoping desperately that their circumstances will improve, but suspecting,
in their heart of hearts, that they will remain unloved forever.
The best thing to do in these circumstances is to wake somebody else up, so that they can feel this way, too.

                                   Lemony Snicket

Soul mate...

People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants.
But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.

A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake.

                       But
to live with a soul mate forever? Nah.
Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.

A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master...

                            :- Elizabeth Gilbert

How you love and keep a GIRL

From where I see, loving a girl is an experience . . . an experience that teaches you how to feel your emotions and most importantly how to liberate them.

            According to me, a guy should love a girl like he is learning her. You should learn her intricacies, the smallest of her gestures, the language of her eyes and the reason why she smiles.
 Without her telling you, you must know the reason why she is silent.
             Or why she is probably off. And that's only possible when you know her in and out. You should know her weakest spots and you should know what hits her the most. You should also know her limits and the time she takes to give up on herself.

                         And a guy should be able to get her out of this zone as well. If I'd be in such a place, I'd write to her. I'd write about her. I'd do this everyday. I'd remind her everyday that I'll be there and I'd always hold her the moment she decides to give up.

                                                     I would never let her give up on herself.
 You must love a girl like its the end of the world because quite possibly many have tried and failed. And maybe she has lost faith in love as well as herself. A guy needs to remind her that she is worthy of being loved and worthy of being kept . . . forever!



 That, I think is a small definition of how you love and keep a girl..

Love at his best

1. Love is friendship that has caught     fire. It is quiet understanding, mutual      confidence, sharing and forgiving.

It is loyalty through good and bad times. It settles for less than perfection and makes allowances for human weaknesses.

:- Ann Landers

2. Immature love says: 'I love you because I need you.' Mature love says 'I need you because I love you.

:- Erich Fromm

Only once in your life

Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more.

You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you.

When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself.

Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you.

You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life

 

 

 

  

Back with a bang !!

Hello Friends,

       Sorry for being late....
  my last post was way back in 2014
  
But finally I am back and surely back with a bang...
    
    Firstly a very happy new year folks ( sorry again )

I hope the New Year  2015 will be a wonderful year ahead.

"They said it wouldn’t last. Those sayings seem pretty silly now, don’t they? Here’s to another year."

Let's make the New Year bright...
  
Lots of love...
Take care and keep smiling ...